‘I spoke for fully five minutes on the purity of marriages..’
Autobiography of Hyrum Smith Phelps
Hyrum Smith Phelps first saw the light of day in the once beautiful city
of Nauvoo, Illinois, February 26, 1946. Referring to his early life he
said:
My
parents, Morris Phelps and Sarah Thompson Phelps, had already been
expelled from their homes twice—Kirtland, Ohio and Independence,
Missouri— leaving them very little of this world’s goods. Some three or
four thousand Saints had crossed the Mississippi River by ferry boat and
on the ice headed for the valleys in the Rocky Mountains.
By
the middle of the following June, my father had a yoke of oxen and cows
to pull one wagon, and in company with some others he started to follow
those who had gone previously, arriving at what they called
“Winter Quarters” on the Missouri River in Iowa. We remained there until
June 1851 . Father worked at wagon making most of the time. When he had
managed to raise two teams of oxen and cows, a company of sixty wagons
was organized, Father was made captain, and they started for Utah.
After many trials and hardships, they arrived in Salt Lake City
September 25, 1851. The first winter Mother and two children stayed with
her brother, Samuel Thompson, in Mill Creek Canyon. During the winter,
Father found a location in Alpine, Utah County and a house (such as it
was) built on a piece of ground he had taken up. Soon after we were
located, another member was added to the family, a son, Charles Wilkes
Phelps, who lived four years and died with measles. During 1853 and
1854, Father, his sonin-1aw, James Holmes, Isaac Huston and James
Preston built a saw mill near the mouth of Dry Creek Canyon about a mile
and a half from Alpine. During the summers from 1853 to 1859, I herded
sheep that belonged to the settlers of Alpine. All I had for my dinner
was segos [lily bulbs] that I would dig out of the ground with a digger
that I carried with me. (It was a pointed stick something the shape of a
beaver’s tail.) It was while herding sheep that I was tempted the
hardest to steal It came very near getting the best of me. James Preston
was down in the penstock of the saw mill repairing something, and I
brought my sheep near the mill. I spied a dinner pail and taking the lid
off I saw some flour biscuits. I put my hand in the pail to take a
biscuit and was reminded of that commandment, “Thou shalt not steal. “
Then I remembered the teachings of my mother, “Thou shalt not steal. “
Finally I got courage enough to get away and I went out in the mill yard
and began to pick gum. Soon I heard a voice call my name and when I went
back, James Preston gave me a biscuit and a leg of chicken. Maybe you
think I wasn’t thankful I had resisted the temptation. We had been
without wheat flour for several months and had been eating musty corn
meal bread. I can now (1922) remember those days just as vividly as
though they had
been within the last two years. Only those that
experienced the hardships of those days can realize what they were.
I went to school three or four months in the winter until I was
seventeen years old. About the fifth grade was as far as I reached. When
I grew large enough to put a yoke on the oxen, I quit herding sheep and
worked on the farm and in the canyon. When I was sixteen, I calculated I
could do as much as a common man at most anything. In the spring of 1864 I was 18 years old. Father sold out all his lands and home and
decided to go up to Bear Lake Valley, Idaho. James Holmes and my half
brother, Joseph Phelps, and my father fitted out ox teams and made the
start April 1864. They landed in Montpelier on May 17, 1864. All three
took up a farm and started once more to make homes. They built log
houses with dirt floors and roofs.
In the winter of 1865 I commenced keeping company with Miss Clarinda
Bingham. In the fall of 1866 frost had killed all of the grain and
Calvin Bingham decided to move back to Hyrum, Cache Valley, as he had to
depend on blacksmithing for a living. That meant he would take his
daughter Clarinda also. She and I talked the matter over and we decided
to get married. When I laid the matter before the blacksmith, he said,
“Nothing doing. You are both too young!” (Which was verily true.) I
talked the matter over with a friend, and he advised me to give the old
folks the dodge and get married anyway. So on the evening of September
26, 1866, we invited a high priest by the name of John Turner to come
over to the neighbors’ and perform the ceremony for us. For a short time
it looked like something interesting was going to happen around the
place. I didn’t have very much to say, but a good many things ran
through my mind that space will not permit me to mention. Finally,
things began to get normal again, and we decided if I would go down
below to the town of Benningston and help get the sheep across the Bear
River, we would be forgiven. This was carried out to the satisfaction of
all concerned.
Now for a description of the home I took my bride to: My mother’s house
had but one room 18 by 17 feet, a dirt roof and floor with a straw
carpet. She had her loom in there during the winter. Her bed was in one
corner and I had a bunk built in another corner. It was built into two
sides of the house and one log stood out in the room. A straw bed,
buffalo robe and quilts comprised our bed for the winter. In the spring,
the fore part of May, I found there was going to be an increase in the
family, which put me to my wits’ ends to know how to meet the situation.
But it happened that providence had smiled down on me again by sending
the Indians into the valley somewhat earlier than usual. I happened to
be the sole owner of a little brown pony which I sold to an Indian for a
buffalo robe and seven elk skins. The nearest dry goods store at that
time was Richmond, Cache Valley, some 65 miles across a big mountain. It
happened that my brother Joseph was in the same boat that I was, and he
and I started out to find a market for what we had to sell. I sold my
buffalo robe and three of my elk skins, (I had four elk skins left to
make me a suit of clothes) and bought a few yards of flannel and a few
yards of calico, a bottle of castor oil, a box of Grafenburg pills and
three hundred pounds of flour, and I went home with a smile on my face
that did not come off for a long time. That summer I built a house and
moved in and we called it our home. Father took a contract that summer
to build a bridge over Blacksmith Fork about 60 miles southwest en route
to Ogden. He let James Homes, Hyrum S. Rich and myself in with him, and
we received $86 each in store pay on Williams Jennings in Salt Lake
City.
Now, reader, I want to tell you that was the first time in my life I had
worked for money and appropriated the proceeds for myself. Previous to
that it had always been for Father’s family. With my store bill I bought
me a scythe to cut hay, a pitchfork, a shovel, ax and kitchen furniture.
And we were just as happy as young married folks can be Then for the next
ten or fifteen years, every sixteen or eighteen months, an extra member
was added to the family until we had an even dozen. I forgot to say that
we obtained the cattail feather bed from bulrushes on the river bottoms
the first winter.
My spare time was occupied trying to improve my home and surroundings.
Crops were cut short by the early frosts. Sometimes entirely. But with
all the drawbacks that I endured, I accumulated means and felt I had
been wonderfully blessed. In the summer of 1872, Brigham Young came to
the valley on one of his annual visits and he preached discourses on
plural marriage. (Up to that time, polygamy had never appealed to me
very strong. I had been raised in a polygamous family, and I thought I
never wanted any of it in mine.) After I heard Brigham Young’s sermon,
there was a feeling came over me that I had better at least make the
attempt to get another wife, but to eliminate the courting; just ask the
consent of the girl and her parents and if either was opposed, that was
to be the end of it. When I raised courage to put it to the test,
everything was in the affirmative. September 8, 1873, I was married to
Mary Elizabeth Bingham, sister to my first wife, in the Endowment
House. Being raised in a polygamous family, I thought I knew about as
much as anybody on how to guide the ship. How well I succeeded, those
that have been acquainted with me can be the judge.
During the winter and spring of 1874 and 1875, Charles Mallory and I
built a sawmill in Montpelier Canyon. After that I could build and
finally got comfort- ably situated. On May 22, 1876, Father died after
spending the winter in Southern Utah. He arrived home May 17 and died
five days later. The early frost and cold long winters caused me to make
a change to a warmer climate. With consent of Apostle Charles C. Rich, I
disposed of all my belongings and put it into teams, wagons and cattle.
On October 3, 1878, in company with Charles Dana and son Roswell, John
Hibbert, John and William Lesueur, Charles Warrener and Robert Williams,
we set out for Salt River Valley, Arizona. We arrived at Mesa on January
17, 1879. Robert Williams stopped in Salem, Utah. He had an ox team and
the rest of us had horses. We arrived in Mesa with four teams, three
wagons and about 25 head of cattle, (mostly cows.) The first settlers
had only been located since October. They were living in tents and sheds
mostly. The company let us join them, giving us a chance to work out
water rights to get shares in the company.
It was hard to get a home and get comfortably located again. I disposed
of all my surplus stock, teams, and wagons which enabled me to buy
provisions until I got houses, such as they were, to live in. Everything
went well with us until September 1884 when Charles I. Robson, Oscar
Stewart, Alma Spillsbury, George Wilson, James Wilson and I were
indicted for polygamy and unlawful cohabitations. We never tried to
evade the propositions as we believed the law unconstitutional, and we
had no trouble getting bondsmen. The next spring the trial court
convened in April, We all went down to Phoenix, the county seat, about a
week before our trial was to come off to see if we had any friends that
we could depend on. We found about all the friends we had were saloon
men and that kind of people. We employed lawyers and the church sent Tom
Fitch of Los
Angeles to take charge of the trial. Things looked darker to us every
day. Our lawyers worked with the judge and did all they could to get
some assurance from him to show us some leniency, but failed. Alma
Spillsbury’s case was brought to the jury and in less than twenty
minutes a verdict was given—Guilty. Our lawyers told us there was no use
for any other to stand trial, and so they informed the judge that the
others would plead guilty. We were told to appear at 10 a.m. the next
day. The judge said we would have to promise to obey the law. That
caused me some serious reflections. I

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will now relate a dream I had two
or three nights before. I went to bed wondering what the outcome of it
all would be. I dreamed I was out in an open country all alone, close by
me stood a very small bull, a cherry red in color, the most perfect and
handsome animal I had ever seen. His horns looked to be transparent and
came to a very sharp point. As I looked, at a great distance I saw a
large object moving towards me, and when it came close enough to tell
what it was, I saw that it was a monstrous bull. I discovered that he
was mad, and the closer he came the more mad he became. I saw he was
making for the little bull, and he looked as large to me as an elephant.
He never halted till he came up within six or eight feet of the little
fellow, and all the while the little fellow stood chewing his cud not
seeming to pay any attention to the monster bull. When the monster
stopped, I thought he put out his tongue and his eyes were like balls of
fire. He made a dive at the little bull, and at the same time the little
bull caught him in the neck, completely unjointing it. The monster fell
and I woke up. This dream brought joy to all of us. We felt that
something was going to happen that would cause a change in our favor. On
the morning of April 11 at 10 a.m., we all appeared ready to take our
medicine. The first name called was Hyrum S. Phelps.
The judge asked, “Mr. Phelps, you have pleaded guilty to the charge of
unlawful cohabitation. Have you anything to say why the court should not
pass sentence on you?”
“I have just one request, your honor,” I replied. “That is that you do
not insist on me obeying the law as you interpret it. I consider the law
unconstitutional and made especially to punish the Mormons. I will hold
myself subject to the law at all times, but I don’t want to make any
promises.”
“Mr. Phelps, I am not here to decide on the constitutionality of the
law, but punish those that violate the law as it stands, and I shall
expect something from you that will convince me you will obey it the
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“Your honor, God gave me my wives. They were virgins when I married
them. I can hold my hand up and say before God and man that I never did,
outside of the marriage relations, have anything to do with any man’s
wife or daughter.” I spoke for fully five minutes on the purity of
marriages and why we practiced it. At the conclusion of my talk I said,
“That is all I have to say.”
The first word he spoke was to those sitting near him. He said with
tears in his eyes, “Gentlemen, you may think that this is a desirable
position to pass sentence on these men. This is the hardest thing I ever
had to do. You are some of the best citizens we have. “ Turning to me he
added, “Mr. Phelps, I realize your family needs you at home, and I shall
give you only ninety days and no fine to pay.” I thanked him for being
so lenient.
The next day the warden inspected us, gave us a clean haircut, a shave
and a brand new suit of clothes with the stripes running horizontally.
The night before I was sentenced, Mary Elizabeth gave birth to a baby
girl and a month following she lost her little two-year-old boy. The
warden gave us all privileges that were possible and the most
comfortable cells in the prison.
We were turned loose again on July 12, 1885. I then went to living again
as I had always done. The stake authorities thought I was running
desperate chances as I was living with both families, and advised me to
go to Mexico. In the spring of 1887, I drove down to Juarez, Mexico to
see what I thought of the country. I did not like the government in that
country. On Dec. 3, 1 890, I received a call to serve a mission to the
Southern States and to be in Salt Lake to leave for the mission Dec. 16.
I told my boys I would borrow the money and start Dec. 5 to go up to
Bear Lake and see my folks there before going on my mission. The third
day after I received my call, I started. I arrived at Maricopa where I
was to change cars on the Southern Pacific Railroad. The train stopped,
I looked out of the window and who should I see but my old friend the
Federal Marshall who was after me. The Spirit told me he was wanting me
and for me to get off the car on the opposite side from where the others
were getting off. I was to go around, and come in behind and get on the
other train on the opposite side from where the others were getting on
and walk lame. When I came in full view of the officer, the Spirit
seemed to operate on me just like some person giving me a command. When
the train started off, I looked out the window and saw that my poor old
uncle Brother Sam Thompson was returning home after a short visit with
my mother. I did not have time to tell him what was taking place. I
waited in Yuma until the next day and Uncle was on the train, so we went
on our way without any more trouble. I visited my relatives in Bear Lake
and they contributed more than enough to pay my expenses from Salt Lake
and back again. I arrived at my journey’s end (Spartanburg Mills) on
Dec. 23, 1890. I had just one dollar in my pocket, and I gave that to
the family I was to stay with to buy Christmas presents as they were
very poor.
David LeBaron was my first companion. I was gone 23 months, but never
slept out one night, only had to pay for one night’s lodging during my
entire stay in the
mission field. While on my mission I baptized four persons. When I
returned home, I was a better man and had a testimony of the
truthfulness of the gospel During my absence, President Wilford Woodruff
had issued the Manifesto and my law breaking was at an end.
On the 26th of February 1889, I fitted out two teams and went to St.
George, Utah, to work in the temple. I took my mother, wife Clarinda,
daughter Lucretia and son Calvin. We had our three oldest children
sealed to us and mother had her two oldest sealed to her and father. I
also did the work for Grandfather Spencer Phelps and his wife. We were
gone from home six weeks. The work done at St. George completed all the
vicarious work on my ancestors that I knew of at that time. My mother
made her home with me from the time we left Bear Lake, Idaho until her
death January 31, 1896.
About the year 1900, I received a letter from my nephew, William R.
Holmes, who was laboring as a missionary in Massachusetts at the time
that The Phelps Family of America and Their English Ancestors was being
published in two volumes and there might be a chance for me to get my
family included in the work. I sent a list of my family, but it was too
late to be inserted in the book, However, I sent an order and received
the genealogy of my ancestors back for eight generations. My wife Mary
Elizabeth and I have been working in the temple at Logan, Utah most of
the time since April 1919 to 1925.
After returning home from my mission, my time was occupied on my farm
and surroundings until about the year 1910. My sons being married and
myself along in years, I was not able to do the work required. I decided
to sell the 80 acres and when the buyer came along, I sold for $19,000
and bought a city lot in the town of Mesa, and built a home on it for
Clarinda and a home for Mary Elizabeth on 20 acres I had left previous
to my selling. On October 13, 1906 Mary Elizabeth’s house burned down.
We were sleeping out of doors at the time and everything was burned
except the beds and clothing we had taken off our bodies when we went to
bed. It was a brick house and it burned so quickly that the walls were
not damaged very much. I soon rebuilt and was comfortably situated
again. During the winter of 1917- 1 8 I sold my ranch home and we moved
into another home I had built in town. My plans were to spend the
balance of my days working in the temple for the redemption of my
ancestors who are dead and gone.
Now in conclusion of the story I have given of my life, I must say that
I have been true and faithful. On the advent of another birthday, I will
be 77 years old and I have every reason to believe I will live till I am
95 years old. If I should live that long, I expect to hear of more
sorrow and suffering from wars, famines, earthquakes and destruction by
the destroying elements than I have ever heard of in the last fifty
years . I have never sought after notoriety of civil offices. I am
thankful that I was counted worthy to be called into the High Council at
the organization of the Maricopa Stake, which office I held and tried to
honor until the 8th of December, 1912, when I was ordained a patriarch.
And I say as Nephi of Old, “Iwas born of goodly parents” who did all
they could for their children under the circumstances by which they were
surrounded.
And as my ancestors before them. I am proud to know that I am of such
stock, for many of them fought, bled and died in the Revolutionary War.
I thank my God that I am permitted to do their work in the temple of the
Lord, and I pray that my children will join with me as soon as
circumstances will permit them to do so. I know the Lord expects it of
us, and if we fail to do what we can for them, we will come to our
condemnation. (You have ears to hear, take warning.) As for myself, I
know I have made many mistakes and fallen into many habits that were not
becoming to a Latter-day Saint. I have not controlled my tongue and have
said many things I should not have said. But with all my failings, I
have always tried to be honest with my fellow men. I have had no dollar
in my life that I would be ashamed for any person to know how I came by
it, not have I ever spent a dollar that I would be ashamed to tell my
children— Clarinda, 12, and Mary Elizabeth, 14. Eleven of them have
passed to the great beyond. Three of them died and left infant babes. A
daughter, a young woman grown
and a son 19 years. The others ranged in age from three months to four
years. I have also two daughters that are left widows with ten and five
children to take care of.
So I feel content to know that when my time comes, I will have loved
ones to mingle with over there. I thank the Lord that I was permitted to
be born when the Gospel of Jesus Christ was again on the earth. I know
that God lives, that Jesus Christ is the Redeemer of the world and that
Joseph Smith was and is Prophet of God and that the Church known as the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is indeed the only church
that is acceptable unto Him as a church. This is my testimony and I here
subscribe to it in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
P.S. When I die, I prefer to be buried by the side of my mother without
any display of flowers, the same as the rest that have gone on before
me. It is a satisfaction to know I will have loved ones to mingle with
when my turn comes to go.
Given this day the tenth of December, 1922, at Logan, Utah.
/s/ H. S. Phelps
[Hyrum Phelps died April 23, 1926 after being gored by a bull. Kenneth
and Lavel Whatcott were with him when he was gored and said that his
intestines were lying on the ground in the manure. He died two days
later.]
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